Just Joan

Pleasant Surprise

2012-01-11T05:15:00.000-08:00

This week I am on travel for work, doing my first assessment! For the first few days I was lucky enough to be close to Shawn. I was able to see him after work. One day I walked into my room after a long day and was hit by the most beautiful smell of flowers. I turned the corner and found these beautiful lilies (and creative vases). Thank you Shawn!

New Years 2012

2012-01-02T06:20:00.000-08:00

Shawn and M came to Pittsburgh to spend the New Years holiday with me. We had so much fun staying busy with Pittsburgh sightseeing, projects, games, and movies. The boys and I were sad to see them leave today but we were also ready for some time to rest.

Working on our gingerbread men that mom sent in the mail.

The trees outside of Phipps had lights going down every branch. Awesome looking!

Family photo in the room of Christmas trees.

Making doggie treats that mom also sent in the mail. I just noticed Chuy in the corner, haha.

Shawn bought M and I new Converse when we were at the outlets.

On Mt. Washington at the Duquesne Incline. M was nervous the entire time we were on it, but then said it was in her top three favorite things we did.

M was trying out her photography skills.

The big tree at PPG Plaza. We didn't try ice skating, it was cold and windy.

M helped pop the popcorn and enjoyed a NYE Shirley Temple while we watched movies and the ball drop.

Ann's Dari-Creme

2011-12-27T12:48:00.000-08:00

Monday we went out for Ann's famous foot long cheese steaks and a movie. We saw Girl with the Dragon Tattoo. Not as good as the Swedish version but still good. The cheese steaks were very good and came with chili on top...insane!

Shawn made the comment that since he started dating me his eating habits have gotten bad. Why does everyone around me blame me for their eating choices?! :)

Christmas in Maryland

2011-12-26T10:36:00.000-08:00

This Christmas I stayed on the east coast and celebrated with Shawn and his friends and family. We kept busy shopping, wrapping, and more shopping. Did I mention eating?! Oh man we ate!

Christmas morning Shawn, the boys, and I opened presents. I had so much fun watching as they got excited with each gift. Shawn loved his blanket and I have already received requests from others for their very own. After presents we quickly made buttermilk pancakes and got on the road to get to M. While we had M we opened more gifts and made lunch (steak, potatoes, asparagus, green beans, and root beer floats). Meeting M for the first time went really well! Shawn and her are coming this Thursday to spend the long New Years weekend with me. I cannot wait!

After we took M home we stopped by Dina and Steve for more food. I had ham, bagels, coffee cake, and cheese cake. There were many more things I wanted to eat but I just had no more room. After stuffing our faces we went home to relax on the couch and enjoy the rest of a great Christmas.

Holiday Party

2011-12-12T07:42:00.000-08:00

Saturday was the SEI's Holiday Party at the Sheraton in Station Square. They had great food, a photobooth, and a dessert and candy bar! I am still eating candy from the party. After the party we met up with all of our friend who don't work for the SEI at Walnut Grill and enjoyed people watching as well as good conversation and music.

I think he tried every dessert they had.

Liz and Kennedy!

Rob and Coop!

We ran out of room on the way home.

Not sure what he was doing back here by himself.

On Sunday we went to the famous Big Jim's, where everything is BIG. I ordered my usual Veal Parm Sandwich on homemade Italian bread (half a loaf). Shawn is trying to steal some of my sandwich.

Shawn's meal finally came out. He ordered the hot sausage calzone. It takes 30 minutes to cook and could feed a small country. He was able to eat almost half. He had some for dinner and took more than enough home this morning.

Another Working Weekend

2011-12-07T09:55:00.000-08:00

This past weekend the boys and I drove down to Maryland to see Shawn even though he was working. We were able to stay at Dina's while Shawn worked on her kitchen. The house is always filled with friends and dogs! We love going there. The boys have a huge yard to run around in, dogs to play with, and Steve to throw the ball.

Chuy melted Steve's heart. He carried Chuy around while he clung to the tennis ball.

Figuring out measurements for the kitchen cabinets.

I crocheted on the couch while he worked in the kitchen. I also caught up on Game of Thrones!

Shawn and I went to see ShawnMac at Friscos. Rennicker had surgery this week and was unable to come out for a visit. Feel better Rennicker!!

After the best pizza in Columbia (Coal Fire's Margarita Pizza) we went to a small bar and played pool. Here is the pro kicking my butt.

Novice.

As Promised

2011-12-06T11:08:00.001-08:00

My mother came for her yearly visit in October. I blogged but did not have photos to accompany my words. I patiently waited for her to get them to me. I received all 500 of them today. Here are some of my favorites!

I had such a great time with her and Sydney. I cannot wait till next year!

They got off the plane and wanted steak immediately.

Famous crepe pancakes at Pamela's.

Mom doing what she does best.

I make mom look so tiny.

At Cirque Du Soleil.

At Washington and Jefferson College.

Having fun at my old campus.

We won! I always win when Walter is on my team.

She has been taught by the best.

Peeling apples for pies!

Kanye and Jay Z...finally

2011-11-27T22:14:00.000-08:00

I have always wanted to see both in concert so when tickets went on sale for one with both of them I jumped on it. I was sad when I bought and listened to their album...terrible. I was not looking forward to the concert.

After I got there I was glad I went. They did some of their new stuff but tons of their old songs. I was pleasantly surprised and in heaven.

So hard to get pics at concerts.

I look rough. Just finished getting through the Thanksgiving weekend. I was exhausted.

Barnes and I had a blast! Mossy even joined us last minute.

Stanley the Christmas Tree

2011-11-25T18:49:00.000-08:00

I have never been more excited for the holidays! There is something (or someones) this year that has me ready to get this season started. I am looking forward to the decorations, the baking, the snow, the time with family and friends, and the reason why we even celebrate this day!! Today Shawn stayed a little longer than he planned so that he could help me pick out and set up a tree. We did not have time to decorate it. I will have to do that later.

This year I went with a live tree. When I got to Lowes one tree begged to be taken home. I also felt like he had a name, Stanley (weird because I have never named a Christmas tree before). I fell in love with Stanley, he is tall and very full (fat). I love how he just fills up the room.

I tired to help set him up but I was clearly going about it all wrong. Shawn and Walter stepped in and took over the entire operation. It was cute to see my boys getting things done together. Chuy did not help with the tree; however he did go through all the shopping bags to see if we had bought anything for him. Hmmm...he must get this from his mother; that is EXACTLY what I would have been doing as a child.

Shawn was clearly needing help. Good thing Walter got right in there and showed him what to do.

Thanksgiving 2011

2011-11-24T20:33:00.000-08:00

After several days of preparation Heyward, Kirsten, Shawn, and I sat down to a beautiful and tasty Thanksgiving dinner. Heyward's mother and aunt joined us for dessert. We enjoyed great food and conversation. I am so grateful for the second family I have here in Pittsburgh and on the east coast. They make being away from my family on the west coast a little more bearable. And I am of course thankful for my family back west! I miss them terribly and the holidays without them this year will definitely be different.

"Game of Thrones-esque"

Thanksgiving Preparation Day 2

2011-11-23T20:19:00.000-08:00

The day before Thanksgiving I had to get the house ready for Shawn's arrival. I also ran to Target and bought tons of Christmas decorations so that we could get the tree up and decorated on Friday. I tried to do anything and everything to stay out of the kitchen after last night.

HOWEVER, I did try to make Shawn's mother's famous cornbread stuffing (at 10:30 pm). I think it turned out alright. He swears it was great (I am no southern cook). We shall see after I get to taste hers if he was lying or not.

I also thought it was funny what I needed to get through these Thanksgiving recipes...

Cooking Light: Recipes
iPad: Look up measurement equivalents and listen to music
Phone: Call mom to ask her any remaining questions the iPad and magazine couldn't answer

Thanksgiving Preparation Day 1

2011-11-22T20:04:00.000-08:00

This year I will be spending Thanksgiving in Pittsburgh with Shawn. We are having a dinner at Kirsten and Heyward's, a few doors down. Shawn and I are in charge of the mashed potatoes, two different stuffings, and the turkey.

Last Thursday and this Monday I went to numerous grocery stores to acquire all the insane ingredients in these recipes. Finally at 8:30 pm last night I found chestnuts, it only took looking at three different places.

Today after work I quickly got busy...DAY ONE OF PREPARATION HAS STARTED!

The brine had to be made and the turkey cleaned tonight so that it could soak for 24 hours. We are making a Maple-Cider Brined Turkey with Bourbon-Cider Gravy from Cooking Light (http://www.myrecipes.com/recipe/maple-cider-brined-turkey-50400000116730/). The turkey was a little bigger than I had anticipated so I needed to get a 5 gallon bucket from Lowe's to soak her in and there had to be some refrigerator rearranging.

I also made the first stuffing this evening, Ciabatta Stuffing with Chestnuts and Raisins, also from Cooking Light (http://www.cookinglight.com/entertaining/holidays-occasions/thanksgiving-stuffing-recipes-00412000073376/page2.html). I burned the first 10 cups of bread. Thank goodness I bought too much and had plenty to try again. I also had fresh chestnuts instead of bottled (all I could find), so I had the pleasure of boiling, peeling, and cooking them myself. My thumbs are KILLING ME! Oh did I mention I HATE CHESTNUTS NOW. But as you can see from the picture the stuffing looks yummy! Now it can sit in the fridge for a day or so and let all the flavors blend before we get to enjoy it.

If you notice there is no picture of the chestnuts. This was the low point in the evening for me, but I made it through.

Weekend Visit to Maryland

2011-11-21T11:26:00.000-08:00

This past weekend the boys and I loaded up in the car and drove down to Maryland to see Shawn, who was working all day Saturday (poor guy).

We arrived at Dina's (Shawn's long time friend) house Friday night. We were welcomed by three happy people and three even happier dogs. The boys had so many friends to play with and all involved had a blast!

Saturday, while Shawn was working, Dina and I went to the mall to shop and to see Breaking Dawn. Can we talk about CHEESY!?!?! WOW! I of course think it was a standard Twilight movie and the last few seconds had me wanting more. Only complaint were the wolf voices, too much.

I did have time to bring lunch to Shawn and see two of the kitchens he is redoing. He does great work! Maybe I should find a good deal on a house and fix it up, hmmm (I'm kidding, for now). Later that night we went out to our favorite sushi place and went crazy. I have now tried things I never thought I would: eel, quail eggs, LIVE scallops, and sashimi. All are very yummy.

Sunday was a lazy day and then the dreaded drive home. I always hate leaving BUT we will get to see him again on Wednesday for Thanksgiving! So I couldn't complain too much this time.

I of course do not remember to take pictures till the last minute. But I snapped a few at the last second.

Car photography is always so hard.

Walter helping Shawn pick a computer.

Christmas in November

2011-11-18T19:53:00.000-08:00

Mom sent a few Christmas packages for Shawn, Montgomery, the boys, and I. The stockings are filled and the presents are stacked. Now we get to wait for a month! The boys some how knew the little stockings were theirs and started to play with them. I think they enjoyed the stockings more than they will their presents. Silly kids.

Halloweener 2011

2011-11-06T16:37:00.000-08:00

Halloween is probably my least favorite holiday of the year. I have participated the last few years since I have the boys but do not be confused I am never thrilled to dress up. This year we were invited to Heyward and Lex's Heaven and Hell party and I was having issues deciding what I was going to do for a costume.

I decided on Sailors when I found the cutest dog costumes. Shawn was also in the Navy way back when so I knew I could get him back into his uniform. I settled on the classic sailor girl dress (not my favorite). We looked cute and had a blast, an overall success.

Shawn was Papa Smurf and M was Smurfette back in Maryland. Since Halloween he has been slowly shaving his full beard down. His facial hair for our costume was hilarious. Everyone at the party thought it was fake...I loved it!

ROLL TIDE!!!!!!!!!

2011-11-05T16:53:00.000-07:00

Since I started dating a southern man from Alabama I have had to pay attention to college football. Football is even on in my home some weekends...imagine that. This weekend was the big game, we played LSU (unfortunately we lost). However, we had a small family party; I made guacamole and a yummy tomato, basil, mozzarella finger food...served on BAMA plates of course.

Shawn is trying to get Walter into the game.

I also baked my favorite fall dessert, pumpkin chocolate chip cookies. These were my weapon against Shawn to get him to stay another night in Pittsburgh. It worked! He drove my to my dentist appointment before heading out this morning. I am a spoiled girl.

The Dreaded P90X

2011-11-04T16:30:00.000-07:00

A little over two weeks ago Shawn and I started doing P90X religiously. We are currently on the third week and going strong, well for the most part. I am having issues with my left shine, knee, hip, leg, etc. It is amazing how old I feel!

Since Shawn is in Maryland, I have a personal trainer here in Pittsburgh that keeps me motivated and pushes me. He is always next to me while I do my reps and even helps when it comes to yoga (great at downward dog). Walter is my little trainer through this process. He is there giving me constant kisses whether I want them or not. He also tries to keep the sweat off me. He is too kind.

I am trying to get past phase 1 of P90X and thus far we are half way there. Gotta keep up the work through the holiday season.

Get Better Chuy

2011-10-26T19:23:00.000-07:00

About two weeks ago I woke up and it was a cold, wet, rainy Friday morning. I let the boys out and Chuy couldn't even walk down the stairs. He laid on the wet door mat. I knew something was wrong! But I am a working mom so I made sure he was wrapped up on the couch and off I went. His Auntie Liz stopped by at noon to check on him and called me telling me to get home NOW. Chuy's anal gland had burst and it didn't look good. Thankfully we now live back in Pittsburgh where our favorite vet is just two blocks away and they saw us immediately. Since Chuy has issues with biting we had to sedate him for the procedure. It was about the scariest thing I had to do. Hold my baby boy while he slowly went under. I came home and had a break down. I know pathetic. A few hours later my boy was back home with me. He needed rest and antibiotics. It has been two weeks and all is well. His man pride has even been restored!

During his recovery Shawn and his daughter, Montgomery, made Chuy a get well card. It was handcrafted and very elaborate. Chuy loved it! Thank you Shawn and M!!!

Walter was a little jealous of the card...not the anal gald issue so much.

The Graham Wedding

2011-10-24T19:15:00.000-07:00

The last day that my mother was here was the Graham wedding. Thank goodness Shawn was here and able to take my mother and niece to the airport then meet up with me later at the wedding. I only snapped a few photos during the night which makes me sad. I didn't get one of Shawn and I (but my mother did, so look for it soon).

I met Erin and Matt about two years ago and they are a beautiful, happy, and loving couple. They are also the first of our group of friends to get married. We have a few engaged and I know there are more on the way. Things might be a changing for our group in the next year or two...we are getting older!!

Annual Fall Visit

2011-10-23T13:52:00.000-07:00

This past week I was so lucky to have my mother and my oldest niece Sydney come visit me during their fall vacation. My mother is making fall vacations with me a tradition and brings one of my nieces or nephews with her. Last year was Maverick, this year Sydney, and I am sure next year is Mallory, I cannot wait! I look forward to this tradition now.

This year we picked apples and made pies (per our usual), shopped, cooked, ate out, shopped some more, went to Cirque du Soleil, and had a great time enjoying each others company. Oh yah...and we worked on bulking up my year supply.

Shawn was also able to come up for the weekend and meet my mother and niece. I think they liked each other, which was a relief! After meeting him Sydney said to me, "You didn't tell me he talked funny. Is his accent real?" Yes! His southern accent is definitely real and thick! Who knew I would find a man from the south in Maryland.

When my mother is around I take the opportunity to not take one single photo. I know she took at least 1,000 pictures. I am not kidding! Last year I think it was over 1,500!! I forgot to grab them off her camera before she left but she promises to get them to me. So sadly this post has no photos of our visit. I will add them to the blog as soon as I get them. HURRY MOM!

Thank you mother for a great week...sorry for being grumpy at times, I am like my father sometimes.

Here is a picture of the show we went to, Quidam.

Without a Paddle

2011-10-10T11:56:00.000-07:00

The weather last week was terrible (in the 40s and wet), however as the new week started the days became sunny and bright. It couldn't have been more perfect for my trip down to Maryland (70s).

I decided to take Friday off so Shawn and I could go kayaking in Annapolis. The tour guides were funny, the weather was beautiful, and there happened to be a boat show going on. I decided that I could take more pictures (for memories of course) if Shawn could just do all the paddling. I am not sure if he totally agreed with me but he was a good sport...I sometimes helped out a little but would get water in the kayak and all over myself (hey I am from the desert, what do you expect?!).

Afterwards, we laid in the park to dry off in the sun; then went to a small pub to grab a burger. We had quite the entertainment, we ate as we watched a huge tour bus try to turn down a tiny one way, one lane street (it took numerous men and about 30 mintues to help the driver).

The rest of the weekend was spent on relaxing mixed with some shopping, errands, and friends. We had planned on going to the Reinassance Festival however traffic and time seemed to be against us (maybe next year).

Honey Do

2011-09-26T12:17:00.000-07:00

This last weekend I was lucky enough to have Shawn come up and visit. It was his first time to Pittsburgh, so guess what we did?! Home repairs! I felt bad that we were not able to go around and see the wonderful sites Pittsburgh has to offer but instead fixed things around the house and just spent time with each other. Neither of us complained.

He is very handy and told me to make a list of things I needed done (blinds installed, drapes and decor hung, etc.). So when he walked through that front door I handed him my Honey Do List and he just smiled. I later over heard him telling his dad "can you believe this woman's list is two pages long?" Ask and ye shall receive, right?! He was a good sport though and we were able to check most things off my list.

While we weren't working on the house we were COOKING! Shawn and I discovered how much we like making meals together from food magazines. I will have to keep my eyes peeled for more since I will be making a trip down to Maryland in two weeks to see him (we are going kayaking and to the rennasaince festival in Annapolis).

We were so busy I forgot to take pictures, next time for sure.

A Second Sister's Visit

2011-09-19T06:08:00.000-07:00

This year I have been so lucky to have two of my sisters come visit me TWICE. Katie and Sabra came to see me in Maryland during February AND this month in Pittsburgh. They are turning into quite the travelers.

Katie came a few days before Sabra and we were able to relax, have fun, and celebrate her and Walter's birthdays. Once Sabra arrived the two fended for themselves during the day so I could work and then at night all three of us ventured out together. We did what we do best...shopped, ate, watched movies, talked, ate some more, and there was a little bit of Rummikub and crafting!

The boys of course loved having extra attention and love. Katie and Sabra showered the boys with both (even when they became a little annoying). Chuy was definitely Sabra's favorite and Walter Katie's (but I don't think they caught on).

Thanks for coming to see me again sissys! I enjoy it each time and have so much fun. Love you!

PS We need to make sure next time all 4 of us are together. We missed Kelly terribly!

The World's Oldest 2 Year Old

2011-09-13T08:28:00.000-07:00

My little old man has turned two today. From his greying, crazy beard/unibrow to his personality...I have never met an older soul. He is quiet, patient, and loving. I was very nervous when I decided to get another dog but he has been the perfect addition to my little family (even Chuy would say so if he HAD to).

I love this crazy little dog. Happy Birthday Walter!

Moved In

2011-09-09T06:18:00.001-07:00

The boys and I made it safely to Pittsburgh and had the house unpacked and somewhat put together in a little over a week. It was hard work but definitely worth it. There is of course tons more to do but mostly man jobs, so I will patiently wait for Shawn's visit so I can put him to work.

The boys are excited to live so close to their Auntie JubJub and cousin Frankle-pants. They play almost everyday after I get home from work and are finally getting along fairly well.

Chuy needed a Starbucks green tea latte to get through the packing and moving.

Walter was exhausted by the end of it all.

Cute cousins napping on the back of the couch (like cats).

Steel City or Bust

2011-08-01T17:37:00.000-07:00

A little over a year ago I graduated and moved to Maryland to start my career! I promised I would stay with my company for years (unlike young professionals these days). I would create a new life in Maryland and be happy!

A lot of things happened in last 14 months and I never realized how much I missed Pittsburgh, how much I considered it home (on the east coast Sabra, calm down), and how irreplaceable those relationships I left back there were.

In June I received a call that Kirsten would be going into surgery and I would need to be there to pick her up from the hospital. The boys and I jumped in the car and we were on our way. While I was there King mentioned an opportunity opening up at CERT and said I should apply, this one was the position for me. So when I got back to Maryland I applied. And then nothing...

For almost a month I didn't hear anything back AND THEN I got a call from HR asking if I was interested in a phone interview. OF COURSE! It went great, loved the people I spoke to and the job they described; they asked if I was interested in a coming to Pittsburgh for a real interview, YES AGAIN! So July 15th I presented and interviewed, then went home to wait for the final decision. I was dying to get back to Pittsburgh and dying to get this job!!

They kept me waiting till July 27th, the day before my birthday, to let me know I GOT THE JOB! WOOHOO!!! I also called my old realty company to see if they had any townhouses available in my old neighborhood (a neighborhood I loved and was sad to leave). They said they had one apartment available and it would be ready September 1st. PERFECT. Even better, it was my old apartment from my first year in grad school. AMAZING. So Friday I went to take a look and yep it was just as I remembered. So I filled out the paperwork and put down a deposit. The boys and I will be moving back to our (east coast) home at the end of the month to pick up right where we left off. Chuy and Walter are super excited to get a yard back...this MD living has been rough on their outdoor adventures.

Not only did I get a great job and my old apartment back but Kirsten, Heyward, and Franklin will be living only a few doors down in another townhouse on our street. I know some of my sisters hate when I compare my dogs to having kids but it feels so great to be on a street where I will be living next to (practically) family, the boys can have a cousin to play with, and Kirsten and I can raise our first set of "kids" together just like we had planned.

When I first moved to Pennsylvania I absolutely detested it; but after 6 years and moving into the city I now bleed black and gold. It took leaving to realize it.

One Quarter of a Century Down...

2011-08-01T17:26:00.000-07:00

And three more to go right?! (one can only hope)

This year for my birthday I took two days off and headed up to Pittsburgh to enjoy a four day weekend. I got to see all my lovely ladies and enjoy their company (and some great Mexican food). Thank you ladies (and King, Heyward, and Lex) for a great weekend!

I also received fabulous birthday texts, calls, cards, and packages from my family. It is always good to get little surprises from them on my birthday. THANK YOU MUCHO!

Neva Stops

2011-07-23T07:41:00.000-07:00

Months ago I decided to finally take the first step towards enrolling in a kickboxing class. I bought a Groupon for 4 classes, free gloves, and a personal training session; that was in March. Four months later I finally went to my first class AND LOVED IT!!!

At first I was a little hesitant but got over that quickly. Due to the odd number of students I was paired up with the instructor and he was AWESOME, couldn't believe that this was my first class since I was doing so well. He even showed me the next steps, how to turn my hips or foot to get more power behind a kick or punch.

He said I had so much athletic ability and I was picking it up so quickly. HELLO?!?! I am a Downing...they must not know about us in Maryland. We are amazing athletes, thanks to our father the one and only Michael Downing. Or perhaps it is because we were all subject to the terrifying game of NEVA STOPS...where he would slowly come at us while punching (don't worry he wasn't violent, no need to call CPS). Either way I loved how easily I picked up the basics and how excited I am to take more classes...now why the hell did I wait so long to go?!?!

Ruckus Run 2011

2011-07-19T19:16:00.000-07:00

This year Kennedy talked a few of us into participating in the Pittsburgh Ruckus Run which consisted of 17 obstacles in a course that was 3.5+ miles.

We had a blast and got extremely muddy!

Maryland Crabs

2011-07-03T20:15:00.000-07:00

I have lived in Maryland over a year and I finally got to enjoy the crabs. It was quite the experience! It really bothered me that they still had eyes and all that. It is much different than eating Alaskan King crab legs. But the little meat I was able to get was yummy.

Today was more than just crabs...it was a 6 course BBQ (chips/salsa, crabs, chips/salsa again, hot dogs, hamburgers/homemade macaroni salad, and cookies). We didn't even get to the watermelon!

Wicked

2011-07-02T20:07:00.000-07:00

I ventured into the city to see Wicked at the Kennedy Center. I LOVED IT!! I really did not know what the story was about but it was so crazy to see the "other side" of the story.

Les Misérables will be at the Kennedy Center in September...I CANNOT WAIT!

Day 18: Dreams

2011-06-17T15:51:00.001-07:00

Abide in the simple and noble regions of thy life, obey thy heart. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

Write down your top three dreams. Now write down what’s holding you back from them.

Top Three Dreams:

#1 To own and run a bakery
#2 To travel the world
#3 To learn to drive a motorcycle

Top Three Things Holding Me Back:

#1 Money and fear of taking a risk
#2 Money and someone to go with
#3 Someone to teach me and a bike

Day 17: Invent the Future

2011-06-16T15:50:00.000-07:00

A man should learn to detect and watch that gleam of light which flashes across his mind from within, more than the lustre of the firmament of bards and sages. Yet he dismisses without notice his thought, because it is his. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

My favorite quote of all time is Alan Kay: ‘In order to predict the future, you have to invent it.’ I am all about inventing the future. Decide what you want the future to be and make it happen. Because you can. Write about your future now.

I want to be successful in life. I want to have a loving husband and fabulous children, hopefully the perfect family. I also want to continue to be successful and progress in my career. I want to be able to look at my life every day and be happy with where I am and the decisions I have made. I want to always be surrounded by love and support from my family. To accomplish this I have to be true to myself, stay positive, look for the good in others, and work hard!

Day 16: Wholly Strange and New

2011-06-15T15:50:00.000-07:00

When good is near you, when you have life in yourself, it is not by any known or accustomed way; you shall not discern the foot-prints of any other; you shall not see the face of man; you shall not hear any name;—— the way, the thought, the good, shall be wholly strange and new. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Can you remember a moment in your life when you had life in yourself and it was wholly strange and new? Can you remember the moment when you stopped walking a path of someone else, and started cutting your own?

Write about that moment. And if you haven’t experienced it yet, let the miracle play out in your mind’s eye and write about that moment in your future.

I have never thought I was walking the path of someone else but I guess as we are growing up we are doing a lot of what our parents would have us do. That being said I guess when I was graduating from W&J and was trying to decide whether to get married or go to graduate school was when I finally made a big decision and started supporting myself and doing what I thought was best for me. Since then I have graduated, moved from PA to MD, and started my career. I sometimes stop and think about what my life would be like if I never left AZ, or went to grad school, or went back home after finishing my degrees. You always wonder if there is something better but for now I am happy and working hard.

Day 15: One Thing

2011-06-14T15:49:00.000-07:00

Do your work, and I shall know you. Do your work, and you shall reinforce yourself. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

Take a moment, step back from your concerns, and focus on one thing: You have one life to achieve everything you’ve ever wanted. Sounds simple, but when you really focus on it, let it seep into your consciousness, you realize you only have about 100 years to get every single thing you’ve ever wanted to do. No second chances. This is your only shot. Suddenly, this means you should have started yesterday. No more waiting for permission or resources to start. Today is the day you make the rest of your life happen. Write down one thing you’ve always wanted to do and how you will achieve that goal. Don’t be afraid to be very specific in how you’ll achieve it: once you start achieving, your goals will get bigger and your capability to meet them will grow.

I feel like I have already done this one. Hmmm...today my interest in motorcycles was peaked again. I have always wanted to learn to drive one. I love riding them so wouldn't driving be way better?! I have no idea how to go about learning to ride one. Any ideas? Someone suggested taking lesson or a class. I don't know how I feel about that. I suppose I would rather someone I know teach me.

I am not sure when I will make this goal happen but I will try for sooner rather than later.

Day 14: Alternative Paths

2011-06-13T15:49:00.000-07:00

When good is near you, when you have life in yourself, it is not by any known or accustomed way; you shall not discern the foot-prints of any other; you shall not see the face of man; you shall not hear any name; the way, the thought, the good, shall be wholly strange and new. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

The world buzzes about goals and visions. Focus. Create a vivid picture of exactly where you want to go. Dream big, then don’t let anything or anyone stop you. The problem, as Daniel Gilbert wrote in Stumbling Upon Happiness, is that we’re horrible at forecasting how we’ll really feel 10 or 20 years from now – once we’ve gotten what we dreamed of. Often, we get there only to say, “That’s not what I thought it would be,” and ask, “What now?” Ambition is good. Blind ambition is not. It blocks out not only distraction, but the many opportunities that might take you off course but that may also lead you in a new direction. Consistent daily action is only a virtue when bundled with a willingness to remain open to the unknown. In this exercise, look at your current quest and ask, “What alternative opportunities, interpretations and paths am I not seeing?” They’re always there, but you’ve got to choose to see them.

Not sure what to write...

I am stubborn making it hard for me to look for the other path's I do not easily see. I also like doing things a certain way (my way) and I need to learn to be flexible. It is a problem I have in certain areas of my life. I need to remember to be more open to alternative paths and ways of doing things.

Day 13: Surprise

2011-06-12T15:48:00.000-07:00

I will not hide my tastes or aversions. I will so trust that what is deep is holy, if we follow the truth, it will bring us out safe at last. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

Think of a time when you didn’t think you were capable of doing something, but then surprised yourself. How will you surprise yourself this week?

When I decided to leave Arizona to go to school in Pennsylvania I really thought I would be back after 1 year, then after 4 years, then after 6. I am now working on my 8th year away from Arizona and I cannot believe that I was able to get through undergrad and grad school, and now starting my career. In the beginning I always thought I would end up back in Yuma and SURPRISINGLY I am still on the East Coast and happy (I know I am suppose to be here).

This week I am going to ACTUALLY go to kickboxing!

Day 12: Fear

2011-06-11T15:48:00.000-07:00

These are the voices which we hear in solitude, but they grow faint and inaudible as we enter into the world. Society everywhere is in conspiracy against the manhood of every one of its members. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

Is fear holding you back from living your fullest life and being truly self expressed? Put yourself in the shoes of the you who’s already lived your dream and write out the answers to the following:

Is the insecurity you’re defending worth the dream you’ll never realize? or the love you’ll never venture? or the joy you’ll never feel?

Will the blunder matter in 10 years? Or 10 weeks? Or 10 days? Or 10 minutes?

Can you be happy being anything less than who you really are?

Now Do. The Thing. You Fear.

YES, fear is always holding me back from living my fullest life and being truly self expressed.

No, of course not. All the silly insecurities I hold on to will never be worth any possible dream, love, or joy. I need to stop letting fear stop me from being who I really am. My biggest fears are rejection and disappointment from those I care about that might not always understand the real me.

Day 11: Divine Idea

2011-06-10T10:44:00.000-07:00

Imitation is Suicide. Insist on yourself; never imitate. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

Write down in which areas of your life you have to overcome these suicidal tendencies of imitation, and how you can transform them into a newborn you – one that doesn’t hide its uniqueness, but thrives on it. There is a “divine idea which each of us represents” – which is yours?

I have been in a constant struggle between "Mormon" life and "normal" life, the whole Joan vs Joann (as Kirsten says). The past year and a half or so I have been trying to do the "Mormon thing" (church, marriage, etc.). Being 24, single, and career oriented I often feel very out of place in "Mormon world". I suppose I have been trying to imitated what I feel is expected of me from such a culture.

The past few weeks I have been trying to find some weird balance between who I think people expect me to be and who I actually am. I suppose I should take my own advice (from previous post) and just be true to myself no matter what anyone thinks.

As for what my divine idea is...I have no idea. I just want to be happy.

Day 10: Your Personal Message

2011-06-09T18:37:00.001-07:00

To believe your own thought, to believe that what is true for you in your private heart is true for all men, that is genius. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

What is burning deep inside of you? If you could spread your personal message RIGHT NOW to 1 million people, what would you say?

I never really thought I had a personal message or something I would need to tell 1 million people RIGHT NOW. But if I had to give some sort of advice I would say:

Be who you are. Be true to yourself, NO MATTER WHAT. Many of us worry too much about fitting in and not standing out (especially growing up). Instead embrace who you are and don't ever be afraid to be different. My grandmother always said, if someone doesn't like you then screw 'em they aren't important anyways (or something like that, I was very young).

Day 9: Afraid to Do

2011-06-08T13:24:00.000-07:00

The other terror that scares us from self-trust is our consistency; a reverence for our past act or word, because the eyes of others have no other data for computing our orbit than our past acts, and we are loath to disappoint them. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Emerson says: “Always do what you are afraid to do.” What is ‘too scary’ to write about? Try doing it now.

Well it took me a few days to work up the courage on this one but I did it this afternoon. It is ALWAYS 'too scary' for me to tell my mother about a new tattoo, but I decided she is going to find out sooner or later and I might as well be on the other side of the country.

It is hard for me to sometimes judge reactions from her over the phone if she doesn't clearly verbalize them. I of course could sense disappointment in her voice and I am sure she isn't very happy about it; however she wasn't angry (or I couldn't tell she was). This may be because after four tattoos its no surprise but still a let down.

She just asked me one question, "Why cherry blossoms?" Well the obvious answer is that I love Asian culture, I want to go to Japan, and they are beautiful. All great answers in my opinion. But after I decided on cherry blossoms I started to look more into their meanings and it just seemed right.

I cannot find the website that I had looked at but here is another one that has a shorter explanation (http://tattoopub.com/cherry-blossom-tattoos.htm).

Outlining

Shading

Color

Today's sentence: The sun is shining and the weather is extremely warm, it is feeling like Yuma today.

Day 8: Five Years

2011-06-07T14:52:00.001-07:00

There will be an agreement in whatever variety of actions, so they be each honest and natural in their hour. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

What would you say to the person you were five years ago? What will you say to the person you’ll be in five years?

Oh geez, me at 19 (well almost 20), what would I say?! Where was I even? I was just starting the summer between my sophomore and junior year of college. I was working at YPG and dating John. Hmmm...

I suppose I would tell myself to realize what is important in the long run, what will make me the happiest. Back then I had no idea how much I wanted the church in my life. I also did not realize that I wanted to further my education and go into the cyber/security world. I think everyone would tell themselves to study more, have more fun, love more, and complain less. Just be more passionate about life!

I would have also told myself to love ME more. If I would have loved ME more I would have done things differently, not only health-wise but in many other areas that affected who I am today. I would have probably shown myself more love AND respect.

I guess the only other thing I would tell myself is get plenty of sunshine and exercise or you will get depressed, don't ever settle for someone who can't give you everything, say what you mean and mean what you say, don't let your OCDs get out of hand (because they will), and don't worry two of the cutest little men will come into your life at the end of grad school and they will be a constant source of joy and love as you steer your way through life.

Now to the FUTURE me, where I am 29 and a little over a month till the big 3-0! What to say now?!

I would probably have more questions than answers. Questions like...
Is what you are doing now making you happy?
Did you ever give up something or someone you shouldn't have?

But then I shouldn't waste my time asking questions right? I should be telling myself important things. I would say...

Always remember who you are and what you stand for, let that be what drives your desires and decisions. Be happy. I know by now you have probably made very important decisions that have set you on a path, I hope that it is the right one for you. I hope that you will make sure to always find joy and happiness. To not look back with regrets or sadness, to know that you made the right choices and you are living the life that was meant for you.

Remember you become your mother so embrace the fabulous qualities she has given you but don't forget the good your father has contributed to who you are as well. Love your family unconditionally and be kind to your husband (you are a bear to live with and he is probably a really nice guy to put up with you). And always remember what your grandmother has taught you, she is a strong woman with great knowledge and many talents. If you strive to obtain the qualities she has you will be a remarkable woman one day.

Today's sentence: I am exhausted mentally and physically, I have a big weekend ahead of me but I have amazing friends that will be there to help me get through it and for that I am grateful!

Day 7: Dare To Be Bold

2011-06-06T18:20:00.001-07:00

Our arts, our occupations, our marriages, our religion, we have not chosen, but society has chosen for us. We are parlour soldiers. We shun the rugged battle of fate, where strength is born. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

“Next to Resistance, rational thought is the artist or entrepreneurs worst enemy. Bad things happen when we employ rational thought, because rational thought comes from the ego. Instead, we want to work from the Self, that is, from instinct and intuition, from the unconscious.

A child has no trouble believing the unbelievable, nor does the genius or the madman. Its only you and I, with our big brains and our tiny hearts, who doubt and overthink and hesitate.” - Steven Pressfield, Do the Work

The idea of “being realistic” holds all of us back. From starting a business or quitting a job to dating someone who may not be our type or moving to a new place – getting “real” often means putting your dreams on hold.

Today, let’s take a step away from rational thought and dare to be bold. What’s one thing you’ve always wanted to accomplish but have been afraid to pursue? Write it down. Also write down the obstacles in your way of reaching your goal. Finally, write down a tangible plan to overcome each obstacle.

The only thing left is to, you know, actually go make it happen. What are you waiting for?

One thing I have been afraid to pursue is kickboxing (silly I know). I have been talking about wanting to do it for years now it feels like. I even bought a Groupon for 5 kickboxing classes and I still have yet to take them! One obstacle was finding a place to take the classes but since I bought a Groupon for a specific place that is no longer an obstacle. Another obstacle is time. I always feel like I never have enough time after work to do too much so I let that stop me from doing many things. I also let my insecurities get in the way of me doing more physical things in public, like running (ps another thing I want to do is run a marathon...or half marathon). My plan to over come the obstacles of time and insecurities is to get my name of the schedule for the classes and go! I also need to realize that no one is perfect at these dang classes and I should not be self-conscious.

As for the marathon...I started running more but I need to get a marathon training program from online and start doing it. I think running in a marathon would be quite an accomplishment for myself!

Post-it Question Revisited: It has been well over 48 hours and I have been thinking about how to become more motivated about professional career growth. I realized that when I look at the big picture (where I want to be in say 5 or 10 years) I become overwhelmed with the amount of work it will take. Instead I need to focus on smaller portions of that picture and one day they will add up!

I need to focus on one or two major goals a month and follow them through. I need to stay focused and know what it is I am working towards at that moment (something smaller and specific). Once I have accomplished a goal I need to focus on another, not allowing myself to let significant amounts of time pass (I get lazy).

I also need to make regular meetings with my mentor and career managers to make sure I am on track and that I am setting the correct smaller goals to ultimately meet the BIG ONE!

Today's sentence: I started CISSP training which is one of my smaller goals to help my career growth (promotion); I must stay focus throughout training and then study hard for the next month so that I can pass the exam!

Day 6: Come Alive

2011-06-05T16:33:00.000-07:00

Life wastes itself while we are preparing to live. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

If you had one week left to live, would you still be doing what you’re doing now? In what areas of your life are you preparing to live? Take them off your To Do list and add them to a To Stop list. Resolve to only do what makes you come alive.

Bonus: How can your goals improve the present and not keep you in a perpetual “always something better” spiral?

If I had one week to live I definitely would not be doing what I am doing now (going to work, not with family, etc.). However, I do think my life is going really good right now and I do not have any major regrets.

During my last week I would spend time with my family and close friends. I would also be eating the best food imaginable (mexican, DQ, desserts).

The areas of my life that I am preparing to live is for the future (husband, family, career). I suppose that I do focus too much on the future when I should be enjoying what I have now.

I should set goals now that will make me happy and prepare me to be the person I want to be so that when those "future" things I am waiting for do show up I am ready!

Today's sentence: The weather has been amazing, warm and bright, just like my mood lately; I am thankful for the beautiful world my Heavenly Father has created for me to enjoy.

Day 5: Travel

2011-06-04T16:21:00.000-07:00

If we live truly, we shall see truly. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Not everyone wants to travel the world, but most people can identify at least one place in the world they’d like to visit before they die. Where is that place for you, and what will you do to make sure you get there?

I am definitely someone who wants to and LOVES to travel. In recent years I haven't really done much of it but I need to make it a goal now that I am working. Being that type of person I of course want to go EVERYWHERE. I can remember being very young and thinking I want to see everything, go everywhere. I know that is impossible but I sure can get a lot done during my life, right?!?

I want to go to Ireland, Italy, Fiji, Australia, Egypt, China....and the list goes on and on. However the one on the top of the list is JAPAN.

I would love to go to Japan because, as Sabra and I always say, we were Asian in another life. I love Asian themed literature and since I started reading those books I have fallen in love with the culture, the women, and the beautiful pictures of the country. I cannot wait to go!

To make sure I get there I will start putting aside a little money each month. I will want to go before I am married, preferably with my sissy! Start saving your pennies sissy. Let's make this happen!

Today's sentence: Today I worked hard all morning (packing/cleaning) but then I enjoyed an evening among friends (Kerri's party/Shawn, Rennicker's apt); I am blessed to have such great friends that love me and are always there for me!

Day 4: Post-it Question

2011-06-03T16:01:00.000-07:00

That which each can do best, none but his Maker can teach him. Where is the master who could have taught Shakespeare? Where is the master who could have instructed Franklin, or Washington, or Bacon, or Newton? . . . Shakespeare will never be made by the study of Shakespeare. Do that which is assigned you, and you cannot hope too much or dare too much. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

Identify one of your biggest challenges at the moment (ie I don’t feel passionate about my work) and turn it into a question (ie How can I do work I’m passionate about?) Write it on a post-it and put it up on your bathroom mirror or the back of your front door. After 48-hours, journal what answers came up for you and be sure to evaluate them.

I have fallen behind. I am moving in less than a week and many things are getting put on the back burner; blogging happens to be one of them. I also have no idea where my post-its are so I will have to write my challenge on this blog and remember to read it everyday.

My post-it should read...

How do I become more motivated about my professional career growth?!

Today's Sentence: Today is the end of a long work week; I am enjoying a quiet night of packing and relaxing in front of the television.

Day 3: One Strong Belief

2011-06-02T16:15:00.000-07:00

It is easy in the world to live after the world’s opinion; it is easy in solitude to live after our own; but the great man is he who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude. - Ralph Waldo Emerson, Self-Reliance

The world is powered by passionate people, powerful ideas, and fearless action. What’s one strong belief you possess that isn’t shared by your closest friends or family? What inspires this belief, and what have you done to actively live it?

I believe that the Church of Jesus Chris of Latter Day Saints is the only true church on the Earth. My closest friends and I do not share this belief, some of my friends do not even believe in God. However, we do not let our religious views stand in the way of our friendships and our feelings towards each other.

I always grew up in the church but it wasn't until last year when I started going back to church that my faith grew and became stronger. My faith and the confirming feeling that it is true is what inspires my belief in the church. Although I am continuously struggling I am actively trying to do what is right.

Today's sentence: Today life and loss has been on my mind; I feel for those in pain and hope that one day they will be able to smile, letting the joys of life lift their spirits once again.

Day 2: Today

2011-06-01T14:46:00.000-07:00

Your genuine action will explain itself, and will explain your other genuine actions. Your conformity explains nothing. The force of character is cumulative. – Ralph Waldo Emerson, Self-Reliance

If ‘the voyage of the best ship is a zigzag line of a hundred tacks,’ then it is more genuine to be present today than to recount yesterdays. How would you describe today using only one sentence? Tell today’s sentence to one other person. Repeat each day.

Here is my one sentence...

Today was warm and sunny, a great day for playing ball with the boys and enjoying the pool(exactly what I did).

Day 1: 15 Minutes to Live

2011-05-31T14:46:00.000-07:00

We are afraid of truth, afraid of fortune, afraid of death, and afraid of each other. Our age yields no great and perfect persons. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

You just discovered you have fifteen minutes to live.

1. Set a timer for fifteen minutes.
2. Write the story that has to be written.

To think I only have 15 minutes to write everything I would like to leave to the world and I am drawing blanks. Tears come to my eyes when I think about what I will be leaving behind. I have a great family and amazing friends. I love them with all my heart although I feel I sometimes did not let them know. I hope they do though. I hope my family knows that they were everything to me. That even though I lived on the other side of the country I loved them dearly, missed them always, and often yearned to be with them. I do not know why I moved so far away from them but it seemed to be the right answer for me. As for my friends they accepted me for who I really am. I know that a lot of the time they never understood the internal struggles I was having but they were there for me no matter what path I was on. For that I am grateful.

I guess I would tell you to love yourself no matter what. It seems to be the thing I struggle with a lot. One would never guess because I try to be strong and confident but most times inside I was scared. Love who you are (physically, spiritually, emotionally).

I wish I wasn't afraid of commitment, of uncertainty, and of fully loving someone else. I think I let those emotions dictate a lot of my actions and ultimately my (un)happiness.

Never regret anything. We all make good choices and we all make plenty of bad. For whatever reasons we made them and yes things could have been better but you chose to go down that path and it shaped and molded you into the person you are today. Take those experiences for what they are worth; learn and grow from them and make better decisions the next time around.

Find happiness in all things. The key is to look for it. You cannot just sit there waiting for things to happen for happiness and joy to find you. You have to be proactive. You have to be daring to put it all out there. You have to be willing to let people and things in so that you may fully experience life and all the joys it has to offer.

I have 5 minutes left...

I am Joan Preston Downing. I came from Bard, CA and moved east to gain an education and work. I died at the young age of 24. I did not get to enjoy marriage, children, growing old, or anything else that comes with living past my early adult life. I loved my family more than anything in the world. They taught me more than any school could have. I love them and I will miss them. I wish I would have stayed closer to them.

TRUST30

2011-05-31T14:45:00.000-07:00

Self-Reliance by Ralph Waldo Emerson urges readers to trust their intuition rather than conforming to the will of the majority.

#Trust30 is an online initiative and 30-day writing challenge that encourages you to look within and trust yourself. Use this as an opportunity to reflect on your now, and to create direction for your future. 30 prompts from inspiring thought-leaders will guide you on your writing journey

My sister Katie is doing this and has inspired Sabra and I to do the same.

Memorial Day Weekend

2011-05-30T19:25:00.000-07:00

I of course went to Pittsburgh for the holiday weekend. I told Jubby I was not going to make it since I had major packing to do but she was insistent on me being there...so much she decided to have an emergency appendectomy. Friday after work I loaded up the boys and we drove through rain and lighting to make it to Pittsburgh.

Kirsten is doing well and was able to come home Saturday. She was slow moving and in a lot of pain but when we left this afternoon she had been to class and went to lunch with us, so she is recovering nicely!

We did what we do best in Pittsburgh...talk, cuddle, eat, dance, lay out, grill, tv/movies, shopping, puppies, and of course EAT EAT EAT!

I also had quite the rides on Monday. Kozar took me out on his motorcycle. I LOVED IT! I forgot how much I love riding on one. Then Heyward took me out in the Corvette (no pics) and let Lady Gaga blast from the stereo...MY FAV!

More Wedding Photos

2011-05-30T17:03:00.000-07:00

Tracey's Wedding Weekend

2011-05-22T19:06:00.000-07:00

This weekend I was honored to be apart of Tracey's special day. I was lucky to have found someone as amazing as her when I took my job in Maryland. We instantly bonded and have been close ever since. Thank you Tracey for asking me to be a bridesmaid!

Thursday evening we went to the movie Bridesmaids (HILARIOUS), Mexican food for dinner, and then salsa dancing. We had a blast!

Friday night was the rehearsal and dinner at a delicious crab shack near the water.

Saturday was the wedding. It was beautiful and I cannot wait to see the professional pictures. I had so much fun with the entire wedding party and of course the bride and groom!!

Law School Graduation

2011-05-17T10:34:00.000-07:00

Kirsten graduated from law school this month and we were fortunate enough to get up to Pittsburgh to celebrate for a few days. Steve, the boys, and I had a lot of fun seeing our family and friends.

We had a Mexican fiesta, barbeque, and Sunday Funday brunch. As you can tell our lives revolve around dogs, food, and each other.

Congratulations Kirsten!!!

Steve had two very helpful co-pilots

Chuy hated his sombrero.

Junior Achievement 2011

2011-05-13T11:02:00.000-07:00

I became involved in Junior Achievement this year and LOVED it. I am so glad that a colleague asked me to volunteer. I look forward to participating every year.

What is it?!

Junior Achievement is a partnership between the business community, educators and volunteers — all working together to inspire young people to dream big and reach their potential. JA's hands-on, experiential programs teach the key concepts of work readiness, entrepreneurship and financial literacy to young people all over the world.
(http://www.ja.org/)

I taught kindergarteners financial literacy (money, saving, trade, earn, etc). I can't describe the great experience I had with the kids. It was so much fun and they really do listen and know so much. I was thoroughly impressed. I cannot wait to do it again next year!

Chuy Turns T-W-O

2011-05-08T16:20:00.000-07:00

My little man turned 2 today! We had a small family party. I made cupcakes (oatmeal and carrot) and frosted them with peanut butter. They LOVED them.

Chuy loved his present...a flavored bone and a squeaky toy that is suppose to be indestructible. Surprisingly its been half a day and there isn't even a mark on it. Maybe I finally found a toy that they cannot destroy in less than 2.5 seconds.

Mother's Day

2011-05-08T12:46:00.000-07:00

Since I cannot be with my mother today I went looking for pictures. I wish I had access to my baby photos but those are in Bard. I do however have many photos from over the years (since digital cameras were invented).

I love my mother more than I show her and more than she knows. It is because of her that I have many great qualities and talents. Thank you mom.

Still one of the funniest photos I have of mom (Maverick took it too)

Adventures in Baltimore

2011-05-06T17:18:00.000-07:00

Yesterday was an INTERESTING day to say the least.

My day started at 5:45 am. I woke up to a hair dilemma. My newly died red hair now looked ORANGE. But there was nothing I could do about it. I had to be in DC by 9 AM. So I left at 7 to brave the traffic. I was able to start working at my new office for the job I was hired for (almost a year ago). After a 10 hour day I had a busy schedule of errands (dogs, run my 3 miles, Chipotle for cinco de mayo, deliver bed to Steve's grandma, return truck used to deliver bed, and pick up moving boxes from a freecycler).

Needless to say Steve and I were stressed since we were pressed for time and didn't want to be using his brother's friend's truck all night. After we had been driving his truck for 20 minutes I looked down at my feet and notice the cornucopia of manly necessities (pictured above). I couldn't help but take a picture.

We delivered the bed and quickly headed out of the city to get home before dark. **SIDE NOTE: Steve's grandma, mother, and 3 younger brothers live in the city in a not so good area where crime, prostitution, and drugs are somewhat of an issues. But we still go down there to see his grandma and two youngest brothers.** We were able to get a few block from the house before flashing lights were in our mirrors. A Baltimore police car and paddy wagon were behind us and three officers started to approach us.

Long story short they patted Steve down for a weapon, asked us both to step out of the car, then we were asked to sit on the side of the road while they search the truck for weapons and/or drugs. **ANOTHER SIDE NOTE: We could not find the registration or insurance and only knew the owner's first name. Making our story of delivering a bed to our grandma even more convincing.** They of course found nothing (except items such as the ones in the picture above). Let us get back in the truck where they told us that the area we just came from was well known for drugs and we should be careful.

MORAL OF THE STORY: If you do something nice for someone you will be stopped for drug possession.

Happy 27th!

2011-04-28T18:05:00.001-07:00

Monday was Steve's birthday and we celebrated from morning till night! I had him come over bright and early for his favorite breakfast (biscuits and gravy). Then while he was at work the boys left him a balloon on his car. I am sure he did not tell the guys at work two little dogs left it for him.

After work he came over where he found a oreo cheesecake I had baked. My first cheesecake and it turned out pretty good! There was also the first clue to his scavenger hunt waiting for him. He had to get through the many clues I left to find all his gifts around the apartment. Afterward I made his favorite Chicken Fettuccine Alfredo also from scratch! It was so yummy...but it will make you sick knowing what is in it (very unhealthy).

ALSO, I got The Red Plate for us to use for special occasions. He made fun of me but when along with it. He swears we will bring it to restaurants when we go out for special occasions...we will see!

Easter

2011-04-25T17:52:00.000-07:00

This Easter was very fun and food filled. The boys woke up to a family Easter basket. The Easter Bunny brought them each a stuffed toy and brought me chocolate (to share with Steve of course). They loved their toys so much! The fluff and squeakers were ripped out of them in less than 24 hours. RECORD BREAKING.

After church I started cooking up a storm for dinner. This year was the first year I did an entire Easter dinner by myself. I had fun though! While I was cooking Steve went to Baltimore to get his Grandma and three youngest brothers to bring them over for dinner. We had a great time and ate way too much. After 2.5 hours of cooking and 2.5 hours of eating I crashed and went to bed for the night. Steve even did all of the dishes for me! He is a FABULOUS guy.

Greek Easter Bread

2011-04-21T14:05:00.001-07:00

When I was younger my family had many traditions and I enjoyed them. I absolutely loved the progressive dinner we did at Christmas, the family reunions at Thanksgiving, and the Easter egg hunt and breakfast at Grandma's house. As I grew up we did these traditions less and less and now that I live on the other side of the country I am unable to attend the things we still do. It during these times that I really miss my family and wonder why am I living on the East Coast?! (something Sabra asks me on a weekly basis).

HOWEVER, I have adopted families on this coast and I do have a few traditions with them. One in particular is Kirsten's family. They have taken me in and made me feel like one of their own and for that I am grateful. It is nice to have a mom on this side of the country for help and answers to questions when I need them. But most of all I love feeling like part of the family on holidays. Today I received my Easter Bread in the mail from Butty (Kirsten's mother Karen). It is the one edible thing I look forward too during this holiday (and Reese's peanut butter eggs of course). I have been enjoying this Greek tradition for 6 years now and one day I will learn to make my own. But until then I will enjoy my Easter package from my East Coast mom!!

Cirque du Soleil Totem

2011-04-15T08:26:00.000-07:00

This week Steve and I were fortunate to get a great deal on tickets to Totem through a friend at church. We sat in the 3rd row for under $150 (both tickets)!! I brought my camera to take pictures but as soon as I turned it on it immediately shut down...dead battery! I need to learn my lesson and make sure it is always charged and ready (my mom would be ashamed at my lack of photography preparedness). I did however take a few quick shots with my little phone.

The show was absolutely AMAZING! I loved every minute of it. I read some reviews that said it wasn't the best Cirque du Soleil and that the story didn't flow well and I suppose I can see that HOWEVER the talent of the performers and the stunts and tricks they can do makes it a moot point. I was in awe over their physical strength and near perfect physiques.

Here is a link to their website where you can see a small video of the performance (no camera were allowed in the tent).

http://www.cirquedusoleil.com/en/shows/totem/default.aspx

Just A Little Off The Top

2011-04-11T15:32:00.000-07:00

My little Walter was in much need of a haircut and because I was lucky enough to snag a set of clippers off of Freecycle (and the weather was beautiful) he was able to get one from me this weekend. Steve's little brother Brett was a great helper and photographer. We were able to get Walter shaved in no time (and with only minor bald spots). Hims is so handsome all fresh and clean!

Wizards Game

2011-04-10T15:28:00.000-07:00

Steve took his brothers and I (and one of Kevin's friends) to the Wizards game when they played the Hawks. Apparently the Wizards are a horrible team but the Hawks aren't. Surprisingly the Wizards won. I like to think it was because of me. It was a great game and we enjoyed delicious Chipotle after. I had a blast!

I have now been to professional football, basketball, baseball, and hockey games. Am I missing anything else?!

Surprise Bridal Shower

2011-04-09T15:23:00.000-07:00

This past weekend we had a surprise bridal shower for Tracey. Her sister was the mastermind behind this extravaganza and it came together beautifully. There were good friends, good food, and tons of fun! I am so blessed that I have such FABULOUS and FUN friends here. I can't wait for the bachelorette party.

Cherry Blossoms at the Mall

2011-03-31T15:13:00.000-07:00

Celaschi came for a visit before heading back to West Virginia. The boys and I had missed her and were glad she was able to swing by after her spring break on the beach. We had a blast!

She insisted we go to the Cancun Cantina to see the Amish Outlaws play. I was skeptical but we had a blast and they are pretty good. The best part of the night was when she went up on stage for a booty shaking contest (she was definitely the winner).

Saturday we worked out, had Dunkin Donuts, and then drove into DC to see some cherry blossoms down at the Mall. There weren't too many of them out but the Magnolia trees were beautiful and they had much bigger blossoms. We didn't stay too long, grabbed a soft pretzel and a hot dog from a cart and headed home. Later that evening we had a small cookout with Shawn.

Sunday morning when I woke up Celaschi was gone. She is notorious for waking up early to get on the road. I missed saying goodbye to my dear friend. I cannot wait to see her again soon.

We love and miss you Auntie Moo Moo!!

Just Like My Mom, Again...

2011-03-28T15:02:00.000-07:00

Growing up there was always a basket on the dinning room table filled to the brim with different bottles. This cornucopia of pills consisted of my mother's medication and all her vitamins. She would have her breakfast every morning with a large glass of water and next to that would be a pile of these pills and she would slowly eat her breakfast and take them. I always thought she was odd. Who needs that many vitamins?! I mean what does fish oil even do?

As I get older I realize I am more like my mother (and father). More than I would like to admit to be honest. When I started my new diet I decided to take vitamins since I am getting "older". I sat down to breakfast and realized that I was my mother...

My pile is much smaller than hers. I am only 24 though...

Complex Fire

2011-03-24T07:47:00.000-07:00

Last Friday the top floor of a building in our complex caught on fire. I had heart palpitations until I learned that it was not my building and my boys were okay.

No one was hurt but the building is no longer housing tenants. We were very lucky!

Here is a link to the article: http://www.explorehoward.com/news/81454/two-alarm-fire-columbia-destroys-apartment-wilde-lake/

And another to some photos: http://howardfire.net/2011/03/18/apartment-fire-in-columbia-injures-2-firefighters/

Let the Grilling Begin!

2011-03-19T11:03:00.000-07:00

The weather here was absolutely beautiful yesterday, in the 70s! Steve and I ran out the night before and bought a grill, all the necessary grill related items(tiki lights included), and food.

We spent the afternoon putting together the grill, lights, preparing the food, and cleaning up the house for Zack and Rollie's (pronounced Rah-lee) arrival. We had not met Rollie before since Zack adopted him in February so it was fun to have them over! He is a sweet dog, but HUGE compared to the boys.

I enjoyed the great food and company. I cannot wait for more nights of grilling. BUT I do miss everyone in Pittsburgh :(

Dryin' Off

2011-03-17T13:32:00.000-07:00

Being the nice mommy I am I took the boys out on the golf course to play in the beautiful weather and sun we were blessed with this afternoon...

We had fun until I noticed Walter rolling in something. I went to investigate and notice it was the remains of bird. NICE!

So we marched back into the house and took baths immediately. My boys don't love taking baths but it is something that must be done. But they are absolutely adorable when they get out.

Walter is a puff ball and Chuy is a drowned rat. They also do funny little things to dry off.

Well the better video of Walter rolling around on the couch and knocking all the pillows off was taken on my phone and for some reason it is not loading properly to my computer or facebook. I did get a shorter less cute/funny one of him and another of Chuy rolling around.

Game On

2011-03-14T06:54:00.000-07:00

The gym I use to spin at sent an email with information on their next Game On Challenge. After reading what the game was and how it worked I knew I wanted to do it! Instead of paying the $65 I decided to call up my girls in Pittsburgh (and West Virginia) and get them all on board with me.

The Game On Diet is a book that I have not read. I am sure it is a great read and probably explains more about the diet. However, the gym's website (http://www.synergy-gameon.com/Overview.html) had all the rules, the worksheets, and motivation I needed to get started!

I like this diet because it not only makes you eat 5 small healthy meals a day but also encourages you to get enough sleep, exercise, and water for your body. I hope the next 7 weeks will help us all learn to live healthier lives as well as get those last few lbs off before bikini season.

GOOD LUCK LADIES...GAME ON!

Girls Night In

2011-03-07T13:47:00.000-08:00

After a long morning/day in Baltimore Tracey, Kerri, and I headed to Tracey's house where we had enchiladas with Jeff and Ivan. Jeff was the bartender and made sure the Margaritas were flowing (mine have a lot less bite then they use to).

After dinner Kerri and I helped Tracey with her floral arrangements while we listened to music and chatted up a storm. I had a blast with these two!

Funny Faces

Flower Explosion

I can't wait till our next Saturday night together!

Happy Birthday Kerri

2011-03-06T20:29:00.000-08:00

Kerri celebrated a birthday this past week and we all went out for sushi and Oreo cake. We had so much fun!

Kerri is a fabulous woman and a dear friend. Happy Birthday!

On Target

2011-03-04T12:32:00.000-08:00

I told my friend Miguel that I had never shot a gun before and he almost had a heart attack. So we headed to the range down the street from the office this week after work and I got to learn about guns and shooting! I had so much fun and can't wait to go again. I think I would be okay having a gun now...YIKES!! (don't tell mom)

Guess which side was mine...left or right?!?!

Sister's Weekend

2011-02-22T12:41:00.000-08:00

I was fortunate enough to have two of my three sisters come for a visit this past weekend. I am very blessed to have sisters that are so much fun to be around and I enjoyed every moment of it.

We went to the movies, dinners, Potbelly's, National Museum of Natural History, the National Archives, the Library of Congress, the Capitol, Busboys and Poets (best banana and peanut butter with agave nectar sandwich ever), the harbor in Baltimore, Edgar Allen Poe's grave, shopping, and my couch with many movies, cookies, and conversation.

THANK YOU!!

Valentine's Day

2011-02-14T19:56:00.000-08:00

I also received my own Valentine's Day surprise. El diablo brought me an entire tray of brownies! They were scrumtrulescent.

Thanks Steve!!

Puppy Love

2011-02-14T13:47:00.000-08:00

I love my two boys!

Okay its been 30 minutes and I am already regretting the toys that make noise.

A Fabulous (and Super Easy) Chicken Recipe

2011-02-13T10:46:00.000-08:00

My friend Kerri sent this recipe to me and I used it the other night and it was AMAZING. I changed a few things of course for what I had in the kitchen but I am sure whether you follow the recipe or modify it a little you will be satisfied!

Olive oil
Fresh cracked sea salt
Fresh cracked pepper
Minced garlic
1 green bell pepper
1 red bell pepper
1 yellow bell pepper
1 white onion
Multi-Color Rotini Pasta

-Dice the onion and the bell peppers into pretty small, fine pieces (like ¼” by ¼”).
-Put the onion, bell peppers and about 1.5 teaspoon minced garlic into a large sauce pan (large enough to be able to add the chicken and pasta later on).
-Pour a good bit of olive oil all over the mixture and stir so that everything gets nice and saturated.
-Add cracked salt and pepper to the mixture.
-Let the mixture cook down on a medium heat until the onions/bell peppers get pretty soft.
-Cut your chicken breasts into very, very thin medallions (quarter size).
-Add the chicken medallions to the onion/bell pepper mixture and let everything continue to cook together.
-Boil your pasta for about 9-10 minutes.
-Once you feel like the chicken has cooked enough, drain the pasta and add it to the mixture

NOTE: you may not want to add the entire box/bag of pasta so that you get a good ratio of pasta to everything else

Serve with garlic bread.

The way I did it...

I cooked a red onion and all the different color peppers in garlic and oil. I added a pinch of sea salt, pepper, and seasoned salt. Once that was cooked I added the chicken. Then I added cooked rice (instead of pasta) and some chicken broth. YUMMY!!

I can't wait to try it with pasta as well.

Just Like Uncle Zachy

2011-02-10T14:37:00.000-08:00

My mother sent a basketball hoodie and basketball for Walter so he can be just like Uncle Zachy! And I sometimes wonder where I get my crazy from...

Chuy was jealous that he didn't get anything...that rarely happens.

Little Man Chaos

2011-01-30T17:26:00.000-08:00

This weekend Kirsten and Franklin made the hike down from Pittsburgh for a weekend of food, fun, and friends! We enjoyed all our favorite activities: puppy madness, Mexican food, DQ, shopping, Rummikub, baked goods, Billy and Joey, Thai food, movies, cuddling, more shopping, quick work out, tanning, and good conversation. I couldn't ask for a better weekend! Thanks!!

Another Plateau

2011-01-19T06:18:00.000-08:00

The past few weeks I have been on a high, constantly going up and feeling good. However, the past week or so I have been just getting along, not having those same feelings. What is wrong with me? (I partially blame the weather)

I am still working out, always good; but I started eating crap food again! Why is sugar so hard to give up? I gave up all my other vices without a second thought...BUT SUGAR IS MY PROBLEM!?!?! I need help ASAP.

So I thought...when was the last time I did a diet that really work, wasn't super restrictive on how much I ate, and something I could actually do and not want to slit my wrists. I would have to say it was one I did in high school during track season (AKA my track diet). It is basically a list of things you cannot eat based on what you usually eat. Here it is...

No...
fried food
candy/desserts (sugar)
soda
cheese
pickles
carne asada
milk (one glass a day)

I am hoping this will help cleanse my body, jump start me, and give me the energy I am lacking!

OH, I am also going to go to bed at a reasonable hour so I get the sleep I need!

You Spin Me Right Round, Baby

2011-01-10T18:14:00.000-08:00

So every one makes fabulous goals for the new year and some stick to them and some do not. I am usually the do not type. I mean just because its January doesn't motivate me any more or less than when its say August. So last year (nov/dec) I decided that if I was going to do the whole eat better/work out more thing that I needed to start before January so that it was something I was doing and not a New Years Resolution. I am not sure if that makes sense or not but you get the point.

Well I started slow and had some breaks because of the holiday but I can say that I am a solid 10 lbs lighter (15 on a good day) than I was when I started. I am back to high school weight!!! I have cut out A LOT of sugar from my diet (the hardest thing I've ever had to give up) and I am exercising WAY more. I have turned into one of those workout nuts! But I am enjoying it.

I did Zumba the past few months and loved it. But I wanted something new so I decided spinning was next. I started last Friday, have gone to three classes, and I am absolutely ADDICTED! I hope to stay strong for the month and kick my working out in to high gear. I want to look forward to swimsuit season this year instead of dreading it like I do every other year.

I wish everyone luck in their endeavors to stay true to their goals and accomplish them! My sister Katie has been blogging about her transformation and it has given me the kick in the booty to not only be a healthier but a MUCH HAPPIER me!!!

The IQ F* You

2011-01-05T05:58:00.000-08:00

This Christmas I decided to get the boys learning toys. Toys that would give them a mental exercise as well as dispense delicious treats. I decided on the busy buddy block for each one, the tricky treat ball for one, and the IQ ball for the other. Both balls are to be filled with treats and then once the dog rolls them around whala a treat is given for the efforts made.

**Please note that the learning level on the IQ ball is brilliant. I have high expectations.

Well the blocks went over well; the treats are easy and it occupies them forever. The tricky treat ball is also a favorite; Chuy has the patience to get the treats out, Walter not so much. The IQ ball hasn't really gone over so well. The treats are placed in the side where they can not be seen. Then you lay a disc with an opening in the middle of the ball and screw on the top part which is clear. The dog must roll the ball to get the treat from the hidden side to the clear side. Then roll some more to finally get it out. Well...

The boys can get the treat from one side of the ball to the other but once they see it they go nuts and don't understand that they must continue to roll and get it through another opening before devouring it. Oh well I just left it in their kennel so that while I am gone during the day maybe they will have a stroke of genius and finally figure it out.

This is what I came home to last night.

I am certain Chuy decided that rolling each treat out one at a time was not worth the effort and instead unscrewed the ball, removed the disc, and enjoyed all his treats at once! All the while thinking "F* you IQ ball".

Now that my friends is a learning level far beyond brilliant.

Christmas Week in Arizona

2010-12-29T07:29:00.000-08:00

This year I was able to get back to Yuma for 9 days during the Christmas holiday. I had a blast, tons of people to see, things to do, and of course food to eat.

This year I stayed at Sabra's house and enjoyed every minute of it. I didn't realize how much I missed everyone!

While I was there I got to see Kelly and her family, the twins are getting so big. I took the kids to lights and ice cream, a tradition of ours. I helped mom bring Christmas to another family. Went to a few movies (Tron and Tangled), shopped, wrapped gifts, and ate so much food.

Christmas Day was great. I love opening gifts with the Lemmons and seeing the kids excitement as they open their presents. Then I went to Bard to open gifts with the parents and grandma, stopped by grandpa's house for a bit, then enjoyed a Mexican Christmas dinner at Sabra's (we even skyped Zac and Adriana in for part of it).

Below are the pictures I took while there, Sabra has a ton more that I need to get from her. Don't forget Sissy!

Stowaway

2010-12-16T18:06:00.000-08:00

Walter and I were in my room setting out the last of the clothes I needed for my trip. I had no idea where Chuy was until I went out in the living room to close up my luggage. It looks like I may have acquired a stowaway for my trip.

Chuy gets very sad when he sees the big luggage come out.

Snow Days

2010-12-16T18:02:00.000-08:00

Today we got the first real snow for the season. Maryland traffic is insane so I left work early to beat the traffic. There were still crazies all over the road. I wish the snow would have held off a day until I left but oh well. I made it home safely and hope that I can get to the airport tomorrow morning safe and on time as well.

Walter is too cute when he gets in from a walk outside, snow all over his beard (kinda melted by the time I got the camera out).

Here is a picture of our backyard and the golf course.

PS Did I mention I am so glad to be going home for 10 days to get out of this weather! But I will miss my boys terribly :(

BIG Kid Bed

2010-12-16T17:52:00.000-08:00

Since I lived in two attics while going to grad school I was unable to have real furniture (had to be built in room) or TALL furniture (slanted ceilings). Well I have been living in a normal apartment for 6 months now and I finally decided I needed a bed that was more than a foot off the ground.

So a few weeks ago I went out and bought myself a FABULOUS (but very practical) Christmas present. I got a King size Tempurpedic bed and I ABSOLUTELY love love love it!

Of course I had to get new bedding...that was the best part.

Masquerade 2010

2010-12-13T19:22:00.001-08:00

We had our work holiday party at the Hilton in Baltimore and I had a blast! The theme was masquerade and I was super excited. The party was an excuse to go a little crazy at Macy's and I went down a dress size...another reason a new dress (and shoes) were in order.

I went with Zack and we met up with Tracey and her fiance Jeff. It was so much! The food was fabulous. I ate too much. I even got everyone out on the dance floor for at least one song!

After the party we went to a friend of Zack's for another holiday party. We were a little over dressed but who cares when you love what you are wearing!

Here are some pictures from the evening...

Christmas Elves and Reindeer

2010-12-12T06:08:00.000-08:00

We attempted a picture with Santa this year but after a few times of trying to get close to the Petco Santa we decided to just come home and have a photo shoot ourselves. We also decided to get a tree and decorate it, nothing fancy. I need to wrap their gifts so there are some presents under the tree!

Chuy was good and posed, Walter was shy and upset...here are my boys!

Christmas Already?!?!

2010-11-21T12:01:00.001-08:00

I walked into Target yesterday and it was decorated top to bottom with Christmas. I love Christmas but I mean it's Thanksgiving this week and I still don't have my plans 100% figured out for that...how can I begin to deal with Christmas?!?!

In RS we talked about the Christmas dinner and I will be helping decorate a table (which I am excited to do). Then I got a text from my cousin Jennifer asking for a Christmas craft (also excited to figure out). Also, Jace called last night asking me what my favorite Christmas movies was. So...

I suppose I will start to think about/plan for the Christmas holidays even though it is November 21st.

But now where I need some help. I don't think I have a favorite Christmas movie. I mean I have seen many but can't think of one I absolutely love. I also haven't seen a lot of the classics either (YIKES). Hmmm...suggestions anyone?!?!

So far I think I like The Holiday, Elf, Love Actually, and Prancer. Are those good enough to call favorites?? Anyone got suggestions for must see Christmas movies??

Oh and if you have an awesome Christmas craft that I have to do let me know.

Irish Festival

2010-11-16T14:16:00.001-08:00

Celaschi came into town and the boys and I were super excited. She came bearing gifts for all of us! The boys got treats, balls, and I got brownies (yummy). Friday night we met Shawn at Looney's Irish Pub and had the biggest bowl of seafood. We split it and still could not finish. Celaschi was also able to listen to a good band while we ate...she loves live bands.

Saturday Kerri, Celaschi, and I drove to the Irish Festival at the Fair Grounds and had a blast. Wallace met up with us later and enjoyed it as well. We had tons of food, bought some things, and enjoyed some great music. It was good to get in touch with my Irish roots.

After the Irish festival Celaschi and I ordered pizza, talked, and watch movies/tv all night. It was great to have a girls night in. Shawn came for a while a hung out as well.

The boys got a little sick from the threats but overall it was a great weekend and we are glad Celaschi came to visit.

Halloween in the Burgh

2010-11-02T06:55:00.000-07:00

The boys and I packed up the car and headed up to Pittsburgh for the holiday weekend. It had been 2.5 months since we had last been there so a trip was in order.

Friday night I just wanted to dance! So we went to Whim and had a blast. No costumes though...I wanted just a regular night out.

Saturday I got my hair done; it's shaped, short, and red. I feel like me again. The rest of the afternoon we laid around, ordered Thai, and watched t.v. Then we started getting ready for Kennedy's Halloween party. We had surprise costumes this year. Kirsten and I decided to go as sister wives from the compound on Big Love. Everyone loved our costumes. I will admit they are a little creepy; but it was the look we were going for so no complaints!

There were many great costumes at the party. My favorites were of course the Tetris pieces. You can't go wrong! Also, Chris was the Grim Reaper and he carried around a sickle with a cardboard computer with the blue screen of death displayed. By the end of the night I realized how nerdy we really are. There were many other great costumes as well. Oh and Kirsten's stuffed monkey Hank was The Coon from South Park, ridiculous!

Sunday I went to church at my old ward, I love going back to visit. After church Kirsten showed me how to prepare fresh pumpkin for cookies and pies. It was a long weekend but we had fun! The boys were so tired from playing with their cousin all weekend. Walter slept the entire ride home, Chuy for most of it.

Tick-Tock

2010-11-02T06:45:00.000-07:00

Since I can remember my mother has always had clocks around the house, everywhere. An old one with a pendulum and we would get to wind it with the key (we would also get yelled at for playing with it). The little ones in every room, even the bathroom. But most of all the big ones above the fireplace. As time went on the clocks would get bigger and bigger. So of course while she was here for the week she noticed one thing that my house lacked...clocks! I do not own a single clock. But why would I? The iHome, cable box, microwave, oven, and my cell phone all tell time.

It didn't matter my mother was going to make sure I had a clock in every room of the house before she left. AND she almost succeeded (minus the bathrooms). I got two normal little clocks for the kitchen and my office. Can I mention the kitchen already had two clocks but she insisted I needed one with a seconds hand (crazy). The third clock she got me I had to pick out and order off line is on the wall between my dinning room and living room. I love it! It can go anywhere and match anything because it is simply simple. It is 30 inches in diameter, sometimes I think the 50 inch one would have worked but I was nervous it would have been too much for my little apartment.

Here is my perfect clock! I can't wait till I can live somewhere and paint the walls. Then I can have my little red wall with my perfect clock (hopefully above my fireplace).

The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo

2010-11-02T06:37:00.000-07:00

I couldn't even tell you how long ago I bought this book, well over a year I would say. I had picked it up numerous times to read it but just didn't get very far. I don't know if it was the story, the writing, or the translation, or what. Nonetheless, I always kept it around and pretended I would get to it one day. Well in May I pulled it off the shelf and started leaving it by the bed, in July I watched the movie (and liked it), so this past month or so I was determined (Kathy said I would like it). I FINALLY finished it this past Saturday. I loved it! The book has a better ending in my opinion and definitely has me wanting to know more about where Blomkvist and Salander's relationship will go. I am hesitant to pick up the next book (and the one after that) since it took me so long to get through this one. BUT I think its worth a shot. I will probably watch the movie first though (streaming on Netflix already) to get me jump started.

The Trip in Detail

2010-11-02T06:16:00.000-07:00

It has been a little over a week since mom and Buddy left. I have been a little lonely but at least my house in back in order! I often forget what it is like to live with other people.

While my mother was here I had to work but that did not stop us from having fun in the evenings and on the weekend. The first weekend she was here we decided to go up to a farm where we were able to pick pumpkins and apples. We picked too many but I am glad because it kept my mother busy during the day while I was at work. She made many apples pies and tons of applesauce. She showed me how to make both and can the applesauce! SIDE NOTE: This past weekend I took the pumpkins to Pittsburgh and Kirsten showed me how to cook them and get the ready for pies and cookies; I will soon have FRESH pumpkin treats.

We also bulked up my non-existent 72-hour kits as well as my year supply. I have 3 72-hour kits...one for Jace, one for me, and one for the boys! I also had so much food that I decided to put it in the office closet. I have it all organized but of course haven't gotten around to posting a picture. I will one day. My mother says its definitely not a year supply of food but to me (in a small apartment) it looks like it is! SIDE NOTE: Maverick was tired of shopping at Wal-Mart by the end of the week.

We let everyone pick a restaurant to eat out at during the week. My mother picked a steak house (she loves eating meat that is still bleeding), I picked a burger place, and Maverick wanted Medieval Times because I told them there was fighting during dinner. He loved it! He hardly ate because he was intently watching the knights. He was too cute. I love that kid!! SIDE NOTE: My friend Tracey from work and her son Ivan came over for dinner one night and brought Maverick a shield and sword; he held it all through dinner but sadly the TSA people took it from him at airport security, he was not a happy camper.

We also went to the temple's visitor center, church bookstore, the national zoo, and Baltimore harbor for our last hooray before they flew out. I was so worn out and tired after that day as well as the week. I forget how much I don't do living alone. But I was so excited to have them that I made myself keep up!

Mom and buddy even cleaned their bathroom before they left. The best house guests ever! They are welcomed back any time. Thank you mom for making the trip happen and making it fun. I love you!

I mentioned my mother took more photos than necessary while she was here. I only took one! (minus the ones on my phone) It was of this cute little pygmy falcon at the zoo. I hate birds generally (they scare me) but this one looked adorable.

Mom and Maverick's Visit

2010-10-23T19:36:00.000-07:00

Buddy and mom flew in a week ago and since then we have been having fun nonstop. After going through 1400 photos (yes 1400...mom takes a lot) I uploaded enough to show you what we did while they were here. I will do an actual write up on the trip another night...I am extremely tired tonight (chasing a 5 year old and a senior citizen around has me beat).

Thank you mom for a great week, I love you!

Medieval Times

2010-10-15T20:26:00.000-07:00

I work next to a huge mall that has a Medieval Times and I know its cheesy but I have secretly wanted to go just once to see what it is all about. Well a few weeks ago our company decided to plan an event there for this weekend. We were able to get tickets for $10 (a little over $40 cheaper than normal price). So Tracey, Ivan, and I jumped at the chance to go. We had a blast.

We enjoyed our crowns and beverages before the show. It is so weird to see people from work in normal clothes with their families.

After we were seated we had a huge meal that required no eating utensils! The menu consisted of soup, chicken, ribs, bread, potatoes, and a turnover. While we ate we watched a show where the knights battle till the death.

The minute the show stated I realized that Maverick would love it. Sadly him and my mother do not get here until tomorrow afternoon. We might just have to go later this week.

At one point during the show the knights kiss flowers and throw them to the lovely ladies of the crowd. Tracey of course received one of these beauties from the Yellow Knight.

Oh and while we were there so was the Ace of Cakes show and crew. If you see the Knight episode look in the yellow section, I am somewhere in there.

The Big 10

2010-10-15T20:14:00.000-07:00

When moving here I was nervous about leaving friends and starting new, both at work and outside of work. I have been fortunate to find Tracey. She is my cube neighbor and we have become extremely great friends! I have been able to not only get to know her but also her son. I am thankful that they have adopted me and made me feel like part of the family.

This Thursday was Ivan's 10th Birthday, so we celebrated at P.F. Changs! We spoiled ourselves and ordered way too much food but it was so yummy. The green bean appetizer was delicious (thanks Sabra for the recommendation). I of course could not leave without having some of the fired banana dessert. I cannot resist it...ever!

Here are a few pics from our little birthday dinner. (I look tired and like I have no makeup on so please excuse my face.)

Hims Is Growing Up

2010-10-10T16:39:00.000-07:00

So...are you suppose to get extremely emotional once you hit the ripe old age of 24?!?!

This year I cry about everything it seems like. Especially when I look at what my little brother is doing and where he is...maybe it is because we were really close growing up together.

He finished his two years at AWC and left for Texas to play Division I Basketball for Stephen F Austin University in Nacogdoches. He doesn't know it but I constantly worry about him being so far from family and on his own. I know he is older than I was when I left Arizona but the idea of him being on his own always worries me. I am like a mother hen.

Today I was browsing Facebook and came across a picture he posted. I am assuming it is hanging somewhere on his campus, most likely the gym. I smiled and then started tearing up.

Ever since Zachary was little he dreamed about playing Division I and being on t.v. for march madness. I even think he dreams about the NBA sometimes. I have never met anyone so dedicated or passionate about something. As a small child I always thought he was insane. He would go outside and shoot and do moves all day and night working on his game. Sometimes I think he was even playing against imaginary people. He was always doing funny moves. I use to watch (from inside of course) and think why would anyone work so hard at something that was so far away?? I mean who really knows what they want in college when they are 8?

Today in Gospel Principles lesson 34 "Developing Our Talents" was taught. It list the 6 ways we can develop our talents.
1. Evaluate ourselves to find our strengths and abilities
2. Willingness to spend time and effort
3. Faith in Heavenly Father to help us
4. Learn the necessary skills
5. Practice
6. Share our talents so that they may grow

This list talks nothing about love and passion which I think play an important role in developing a talent (don't get me wrong the list above is a great one). I have seen my little brother set a goal and work constantly through the years to perfect himself and his game. He loves playing, practicing, lifting, running, etc. Every element of basketball I think he loves and has a passion for. I often wish I could have that same passion and love for one of my talents. I admire him for these qualities. I am so proud of him and all he has done. I love him so much and enjoy watching him grow up.

Zachary keep being ambitious, hard working, passionate, and dedicated. Never give up on your dreams in life. I love you!

Revamped Lamps

2010-10-10T16:19:00.000-07:00

I haven't done a project for a few weekends because I had company and I was feeling like a break from crafting was necessary. Plus I just didn't have any projects I was dying to do. Don't get me wrong I have a closet full of things that I should do but just don't have the urge yet.

However earlier this week I received a freecycle notice about two "beige and black" lamp shades. Knowing that when I get the king size bed the new comforter is white, beige, and black I figured these lamps shades would look cute and be a fun little change to my room. But when I went to pick them up they weren't beige. They were GOLD and black, the same gold as my curtain in the office. I was so thrilled!

So I headed to Goodwill found two old brass lamps ($5 each) and picked up a can of spray paint at Walmart ($3). Within a few hours and coats of paint I had perfect black lamps for my desk. I was able to move the cheap little floor lamp from the office. The lamps were the finishing touch the room needed (and I didn't even know)!